Growing up and losing friends

Growing up and losing friends

"Why should I care about others when they don't care about me?" Often something I say to myself when I get let down. So many times I find myself running after people when they've called me for help, they upset or angry about something. Every time I'm there giving hours of my time to someone who needs a shoulder to cry on. I will text my friends and ask 'how are you?' Only to be bombarded with everything going on in their life, which is great and I want to know everything that happens, but after that the conversation will end and I have very few friends who will actually ask how I am and see what's going on in my life.

Over the past year this has made me realise, I do not need this people in my life. I only want people who can support me and will benefit me, maybe this is selfish? But after all it is my life so why can't I be the centre of it?

A few months ago I decided enough was enough and it was time to let those people go. So if you are planning on binning the crap friends here are a few reassuring words.

It doesn't make you a bad person because you don't want to hang out with someone anymore.

You weren't born to live your life wasting hours on one sided friends.

There are people out there who actually care about you, spend more time with them!

To find those one sided friends, ask them how they are and see if 1, they ask you the same, and 2, if they actually listen to your answer.

Good luck xo

All New Miley

All New Miley

New laid back loving Miley is back with track 'Malibu', the first track from her yet to be titled album. It is undoubtedly more tame than previous hits, such as 'Wrecking Ball' with the lyrics being a lot more personal and meaningful. 'I always thought I would sink, so I never swam' is my favourite quote from the track. Can you tell it's inspired by on/off lover Liam Hemsworth? 
Listen to it on Spotify below

5 things to achieve by June 2017

5 things to achieve by June 2017

I'm giving myself 16 days to start changing my life, how hard can it be?! 
Here's a list of 5 things I plan to do within those 16 days. 

1. Reach my daily footsteps goal everyday 

2. Go for a run 

3. Finish reading a book 

4. Don't get involved in gossip 

5. Do one thing that scares me each day 

I will report back on June 1st with my achievements (or failures).